The real reveal
Welcome to “The Gender Reveal Party, #therealreveal where we reveal Gender not Genitals! That’s right, the parties you’ve been going to called the “Gender Reveal Parties” are parties where an unborn baby’s sex parts are revealed. That’s sort of jacked up if you ask me. This is The Gender Reveal Party where gender will be revealed through stories, comedy and educational videos.
The Gender Reveal Party started as a one human show that I wrote and performed in 2018. But you don’t have to have seen the show to enjoy the Gender Reveal Party podcast. It is dedicated to revealing gender through stories of human beings talking about their gender identity, their stories about their gender and their lived experience.
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Who's next?
Got a story about gender? Wanna be a guest interview on "The Gender Reveal Party"?
We're interested in telling all kinds of stories about gender expression or identity or stories about being a member of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. If you have a story to tell and would like to be a guest, click here to fill out a contact form.
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New Gender Reveal Every Week
Each week we release a new video interview with another human being that has something to say about gender. Our goal is for our audience to understand that gender is a construct that was all made up and it’s way more fluid than any of us can fathom. Penises and vulvae are sex parts, not gender. Gender and genitals are NOT the same thing. These weekly stories are about gender reveal.
This site includes educational videos on the 2SLGBTQIA+ spectrum. You can also find clips from the The Gender Reveal show and other quick comedy videos of me sharing the comedy about my experience walking through the world as a perceived Man with a Vagina. What can I say, I’m a unicorn. Most importantly this site features stories of my friends, colleagues and acquaintances who have powerful things to say about gender and their journey of walking through the world as someone considered as “other.”
Gender is Not Binary
Gender is not binary. It is fluid and nuanced and is a beautiful expression of us as human beings.
The mission of this website is to reveal all gender varieties and to explore the construct of gender and how pervasive it is in the heteronormative systems we do life in. We are the real reveal. We hope that you will soak up the stories of our guests and share them with an intention to educate others and love the differences. It’s been my calling for years to love the transphobia out of our human systems. Thanks for sharing in my purpose.
This is my Art
I’m an inspirational speaker and trainer by profession. I’ve done comedy since my first impression of Arnold Horshack in 5th grade, but I’ve only done it on stage a handful of times. I would not consider myself an actor. I am an artist and creator. The Gender Reveal Party: A One Human Show came through me and I consider it my art.
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TESTIMONIALS
“One of the most beautiful stories I have ever heard, Thank you for your intense vulnerability.”
B. Spielman
“The vulnerability was beautiful and I appreciate your willingness to share everything. Wow!”
J. Connolly
“Awsomely Honest” “Jay – relatability, so real!”
C. Moreland
“The Gender Reveal Party is one of the most transformative events I’ve ever attended. It’s laugh out loud funny and leaves you in tears.”
D. Silver
“Where ever you are in your knowledge and feelings about gender. The Gender Reveal Party will move you forward in ways you never expected.”
M. Leon
“The raw humor, stories, and emotions were like a roller coaster ride.”
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